A conference among bishops revealed little progress to change any of the old and busted policies used by the Catholic Hierarchy which ultimately led to repeated instances of the sexual abuse of innocent children. And now there's also a call for a local Grand Jury investigation of Bishop Finn and everyone that might be involved in Kansas City-St. Joseph Diocese cover-up of child porn allegations facing a local priest.
It seems that Kansas City Catholic stonewalling has simply emboldened SNAP and a great many of their critics.
To wit . . .
CHECK OUT AN E-MAIL CHALLENGING SUPPORTERS OF BISHOP FINN OBTAINED EXCLUSIVELY BY TKC!!!
I've edited out some named and identifying information but SNAP put the call out to organizers of protests in support of Bishop Finn BY NAME and took them to task for their alleged blind allegiance.
Check it:
SNAP WRITES AN OPEN LETTER TO BISHOP FINN SUPPORTERS
Dear #########:
Somewhere in Kansas City, a 13 year old girl is being molested by her stepfather. She’s considering whether to tell someone about her plight. But her stepdad says “No one will believe you. People will believe me.”
She then sees Catholics on TV, rallying around an accused wrongdoer, their bishop. She decides it’s safer to just stay quiet, and the abuse continues.
At a school somewhere in Kansas City, a 14 year old boy is being sexually violated by his popular, powerful coach. The boy wonders whether he should confide in someone. He asks his mother where she’s going. “To a rally to back Bishop Finn,” she says. “They say he protected child predators. But I don’t believe them.” Heartsick that his mom is defending an accused wrongdoer, instead of keeping an open mind or siding with children, he decides that he too should play it safe and keep his mouth shut. And his predator keeps hurting other kids.
Somewhere else in Kansas City is a businessman. He suspected a clergy sex crime by a church employee. He’s thinking of reporting his suspicions. But he reads in the newspaper about a public show of support for Bishop Finn, who’s been accused of deceiving the public and parishioners about an alleged child pornographer. “Wow, the church sure has some staunch defenders,” the business owner thinks. “Maybe I’d better keep my mouth shut about my suspicions. I sure don’t’ need a bunch of angry Catholics to boycott my business.”
To you, these may seem like “hypotheticals.” To us, this is reality. Virtually every day in SNAP, we hear from and console men, women and teenagers who are afraid that if they come forward and report heinous crimes, they won’t be believed or supported. We hear from church employees who have information that could help law enforcement catch predators, but are frightened that if they speak up, they’ll be punished and ostracized. Instead, they fear, the often popular and powerful adults – who commit and conceal the crimes – will be believed and supported.
Please don’t exacerbate their pain. Please don’t deepen their fears. Please don’t help their perpetrators. Please cancel your Saturday march in support of Bishop Robert Finn.
Back the bishop if you must. But please do so privately, not publicly. That’s the appropriate and healthy and prudent course of action.
Write him, call him, e mail him, visit him, pray for him, and bring him cookies. But don’t, we beg you, hold your planned march and inadvertently rub even more salt into already deep and still fresh wounds. Don’t take steps that essentially discourage the reporting of child sex crimes.
We believe that you and your colleagues are well-meaning. We don’t think you are in any way intentionally trying to frighten wounded kids, teens or adults. But we firmly believe, based on 23 years of experience, that’s what is happening.
Unintentionally, we believe your “pro-Finn” public rally makes victims feel scared, depressed and hopeless. It discourages them from speaking up and getting help. It comforts those who ignore or hide child sex crimes. And it helps predators to silence their victims and keep hurting others.
Public rallies for the bishop scares victims, especially youngsters, into keeping quiet and thus lets predators go unreported. Quietly supporting the bishop is appropriate, but public events leave victims, witnesses and whistleblowers feeling helpless and intimidated. They prolong and deepen the long-standing church culture of secrecy regarding child sex crimes.
With all due respect, Finn is an adult. He can take care of himself. Ratigan’s victims, however, are kids. They need our help. They need to be supported and encouraged to speak up, not intimidated into staying silent.
We really have only two choices. We can maintain a climate that discourages victims, witnesses and whistleblowers from speaking up. Or we can try harder to develop a climate that encourages victims, witnesses, and whistleblowers to speak up. The latter approach is obviously the prudent, caring approach.
Look at history. Has there been a shortage of people willing to speak up to defend the powerful? Hardly. But is there a shortage of people willing to speak up to defend the powerless? Absolutely. And kids are among the most powerless among us.
Recall too what Jesus said about “the least of my brethren.” We aren’t theologians. But deep in our hearts, we believe he was not talking about Bishop Finn, but rather, Fr. Ratigan’s victims.
And remember the parable of the lost shepherd. That’s what we’re trying to do: find and help and console every single person who has been sexually violated by a cleric. That’s what we hope you’ll do too, instead of loudly rallying around a man who may well have enabled, ignored or concealed sex crimes against children.
Finally, we’re also trying to contact ############# and others who have led or spoken at “pro-Finn” events. If you have contact information for them and would share it with us, we’d be grateful. If you’d rather just forward this letter to them, we would be grateful too.
Thanks for reading this. We hope you’ll weigh our concerns carefully. And we hope you’ll put the well-being of many innocent kids and wounded adults above the reputation of one powerful official.
Please feel free to contact us and to share with every Catholic you know the suggestions below, “What to do if your priest is accused.”
Thank you.
Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests
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Damn.
ReplyDeleteGreat letter. Very insightful, and very classy, too.
ReplyDeleteThe members of SNAP were abused by priests, and have guts to have survived. They have great strength to have written this letter without the hatred that I would have used.
Members of SNAP claim to have been abused by priests. Some undoubtedly were; others not so much.
ReplyDeleteKeep in mind there is a lot of money to be made here. Why not just say some dead priest abused you 40 years ago and that is why you have been a failure all your life?
ReplyDeleteIt shows that it wasn't your fault your life sucked, and it can mean free money for doing nothing.
Not a bad deal.
The one saving grace of the American justice system is that the burden of proof is on the state to establish that a crime was committed.
ReplyDeleteThe burden of proof is not and should not be on a victim to establish that he or she is not lying. A defendant has the right to challenge an accuser; the rest of us should not be so quick to make them victims again.
Todd Graves and Matt Bartle's law firm is part of the cover-up. They were only hired to muddy the waters for any future investigators.
ReplyDeleteMillions have been abused by somebody or other...but want to get it behind them and move on. Without being reminded of it all the time.
ReplyDeleteMillions have been abused by somebody or other...but want to get it behind them and move on. Without being reminded of it all the time.
ReplyDeleteMeanwhile they say nothing and let the abuse continue...
Can you say RICO investigation?
ReplyDeleteIs that like saying if we don't keep bringing up the evils of war, it will keep happening? Or don't keep talking about KC murders, they'll keep happening?
ReplyDeleteViolence is the nature of mankind.
Radioman that's stupid. Are you saying that we don't need to work to stop raping children?
ReplyDeleteThat's a strange statement. Dangerous.
There's nothing dangerous about understanding the nature of the world we live in.
ReplyDeleteI'm certainly suggesting that the rectory isn't a safe place and parents need to pay attention to what their kids are doing and who with.
Just as important as knowing what classmate's driving the kids around on a Friday night... and avoiding some parts of town after dark. And flashing money around in public. And volunteering for convoy duty or point-man. Or not wearing your kevlar. Or not buckling up. Standing up in the back of a pickup. Or hanging around with dopers. Or becoming police chief in Mexican towns.
All the point is, is to be aware. And don't be lulled by false security or well meaning people trying to make the planet something it isn't, and your capabilities more than they are.
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ReplyDeleteWhen the butcher Tiller was giving abortions to underage molestation victims the STATE defended him.
ReplyDeleteSNAP is full of it...they don't care about the victims, they care about the MONEY.
Show me the MONEY!!!
Well, out of courtesy, I read that Pennsylvania court doc. It was a tough read, all right. The institution is corrupt, as are most institutions made by and run by mankind.
ReplyDeleteRman is correct on all points. imo
ReplyDeleteI am wondering how much time SNAP actually spends with victims of sexual abuse.
ReplyDeleteThere must be a billion things going through a victim's mind. I seriously doubt that any one one of those thoughts is "Gee, Catholics are holding a rally for Bishop Finn. That changes everything. I better stay quiet."